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bluedru
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Post subject: CAN WE TOUCH BETWEEN MEN AND WOMEN???  Posted: May 27, 2006 - 12:35 PM |
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Joined: 27-05-06
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Location: DKI JAKARTA
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LET ME INTRODUCE,
ME AS I AM, JUST CALL ME BLUEDRU, THEN U WILL KNOW ME...
BUT IF U KNOW ME THEN U KNOW ME...
CAN I ASK U SOMETHING [CAN WE TOUCH OTHERS?]...
SIMPLE QUESTION BUT HV A DEEP MEANING,
WE ARE PEOPLE HERE WITH MALE AND FEMALE.
CAN WE TOUCH BETWEEN MEN AND WOMEN,
BUT NOWADAYS, SOMETIMES PEOPLE IGNORE THT, AS WE KNOW HERE , WE R AS A MOSLEM CANT DO THT..
BUT IF WE KNOW WHN WE HV RELATIONSHIP WITH MAN OR WOMAN,
AND MAKING IN LOVE, THEN TOUCHING EACH OTHER SEEMS TO BE NORMAL AND USUAL ..
BUT CAN WE DO IT AS FREE AS WE ARE A MOSLEM ..
SOMETIMES THT ALWAYS COME UP ON MY MIND..
I NEED THE ANSWER....
HOW ABOUT WITH FRENS...
CAN WE ALSO TOUCH OTHERS???
BETWEEN MALE AND FEMALE...
AS I KNOW, IN FRENSHIP, PEOPLE OFTEN DO THT..
FREE IN TOUCHING, THEY SAID ONLY FOR HAPPINESS,
AND ALSO TO SHOW HOW THEY CARE BY TOUCHING ..
SOMETIMES I'M CONFUSED...
AS OUR PROPHET LESSON, WE CANT TOUCH BY OTHERS EVEN ONLY SHAKE A HAND..
WELL, CAN WE?
LET ME KNOW ..
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anugerah_w
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| Post subject: Re: CAN WE TOUCH BETWEEN MEN AND WOMEN??? Posted: May 28, 2006 - 11:45 PM |
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Member Aktif I
Joined: 21-10-04
Posts: 343
Location: Bogor
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| bluedru wrote: |
LET ME INTRODUCE,
ME AS I AM, JUST CALL ME BLUEDRU, THEN U WILL KNOW ME...
BUT IF U KNOW ME THEN U KNOW ME...
CAN I ASK U SOMETHING [CAN WE TOUCH OTHERS?]...
SIMPLE QUESTION BUT HV A DEEP MEANING,
WE ARE PEOPLE HERE WITH MALE AND FEMALE.
CAN WE TOUCH BETWEEN MEN AND WOMEN,
BUT NOWADAYS, SOMETIMES PEOPLE IGNORE THT, AS WE KNOW HERE , WE R AS A MOSLEM CANT DO THT..
BUT IF WE KNOW WHN WE HV RELATIONSHIP WITH MAN OR WOMAN,
AND MAKING IN LOVE, THEN TOUCHING EACH OTHER SEEMS TO BE NORMAL AND USUAL ..
BUT CAN WE DO IT AS FREE AS WE ARE A MOSLEM ..
SOMETIMES THT ALWAYS COME UP ON MY MIND..
I NEED THE ANSWER....
HOW ABOUT WITH FRENS...
CAN WE ALSO TOUCH OTHERS???
BETWEEN MALE AND FEMALE...
AS I KNOW, IN FRENSHIP, PEOPLE OFTEN DO THT..
FREE IN TOUCHING, THEY SAID ONLY FOR HAPPINESS,
AND ALSO TO SHOW HOW THEY CARE BY TOUCHING ..
SOMETIMES I'M CONFUSED...
AS OUR PROPHET LESSON, WE CANT TOUCH BY OTHERS EVEN ONLY SHAKE A HAND..
WELL, CAN WE?
LET ME KNOW ..
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ikhwan1301
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| Post subject: Salaman sama lawan jenis yah... Posted: May 30, 2006 - 05:33 PM |
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Kalau salaman sama lawan jenis itu boleh kok, tapi syaratnya NIKAH dulu sama dia.
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al_ichsan
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| Post subject: RE: Salaman sama lawan jenis yah... Posted: Jun 01, 2006 - 09:30 AM |
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Posts: 127
Location: Jakarta-palestine
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Shake hands or touching between man and woman are never tolerated in Islam. As ikhwan1201 said the true one and It was one from many solution in this problem.
If you are not satisfied with this argument you can ask in syariahonline.com.
Insya Allah you can find the answer. 
I realized, we realized the culture in our country still using "shake hand" to respect some one.
I suggest u to read FATWA KONTEMPORER that wrote by syaikh Yusuf Qaradhawi.
U can downloaded it ini this site.
Just klik the word "Download" in left side in main menu.
Have a nice download!
Good luck bro... |
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kart_tiqa
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| Post subject: RE: Salaman sama lawan jenis yah... Posted: Jun 29, 2008 - 10:09 PM |
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Location: jakarta
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| boleh2 aja koq.. asalkan sama muhrimnya.. gmana?! terjawab khan? |
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